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Some babies sleep for
long stretches of time,
others catnap through the 24
hours, and many seem to
prefer sleeping through the
day rather than the night. A
new baby sleeping through
the night is the exception,
not the rule, whatever your
friends and relatives may
say. During the first three
to six months, parents
usually have to adjust their
own sleeping habits to the
baby's, or take shifts, to
avoid exhaustion. (and, in
fact, one definition of a
parent is " A person who is
no longer EVER guaranteed a
full night's sleep!")
Inducing Sleep
Sometimes babies need a
little time to cry or fuss
before sleeping. You'll soon
know if the crying
means something serious.
Your first thought will be
for the baby's comfort.
Position him or her on it's
back. (Studies have shown
that placing the baby on
it's back to sleep may
decrease chance of SIDS)
It's not necessary or
practical to try to live in
a silent house. If you
maintain a reasonable level
of noise, the baby will
become accustomed to it.
You may wish to platy a
radio softly just outside
the baby's room. (But if you
find that the shrill ring of
the phone does wake the
baby, put a pad under the
phone; a thick potholder
works nicely.) Remember
that giving the baby a
feeling of security is the
most important thing.
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Establish a "sleep
routine" from the
beginning, especially if
you'll be traveling or
expecting the baby to
sleep in different
places. Sing the same
lullaby every time and
rub a special spot,
perhaps the back of the
head or the forehead,
and rub that spot at
sleep time ONLY.
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Attach springs to the
bottoms of the crib legs
and try rocking the baby
to sleep.
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Spray the bassinet
sheets very lightly with
the same perfume you
used in the hospital and
it will seem to your
baby that you are near.
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Try confining the baby
gently, bundling him or
her lightly in a
receiving blanket. Some
babies sleep better with
a rather firm swaddling,
reminiscent of the
pre-birth environment.
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Place the baby on his or
her side. Roll up tow
receiving blankets and
put one roll along the
baby's neck, the other
along the stomach. Tuck
in snugly.
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Position the baby in a
corner of the crib or
bassinet with his or
her head touching the
bumper or soft padding
to provide a feeling of
security. This also
allows you to move the
baby from corner to
corner if the sheet gets
wet or soiled.
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Let the baby sleep
upright occasionally, if
he or she prefers it,
using an infant seat or
carrying him or her in a
soft fabric front
carrier.
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Slip a warm heating pad
or hot water bottle onto
the sheet when you take
the baby up for a
feeding so that the bed
will be warm when you
return him or her to it
(but then take pad or
bottle out.) Or warm a
blanket in the dryer
while you feed the baby,
if that's convenient.
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Tape record the sound of
a running dishwasher or
of water filling the tub
and play it to lull a
child t sleep. The sound
of running water
simulates intrauterine
sounds.
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Or invest in the rather
expensive electronic
teddy bear which also
duplicates intrauterine
sounds. Start using it
right from the
beginning, say parents
who like it.
When The Baby Confuses
Day and Night
This phenomenon is
often associated with
colic. If the father works
outside and the mother stays
home, it's logical that she
bear the brunt, but she MUST
catch up on her sleep during
the day, whenever the baby
naps. If both work, they
must share the nighttime
discomfort.
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Try to keep the baby
awake during the early
evening to encourage the
swing to nighttime
sleep. Keep the baby
slightly cool and
upright in infant seat
or carrier. Talk, sing,
dance or do whatever
will stimulate the baby.
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Add a little cereal to
the last evening bottle
for a meal a bit more
substantial.
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Change bath time to just
before bedtime so the
baby will be relaxed.
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Give night feedings in
dim light so the baby
will realize that
they're different from
daytime feedings.
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Avoid too many visitors
and too much handling of
the baby by strangers,
which can over stimulate
the baby and make sleep
difficult.
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Allow yourself a good
cry! This, too, will
pass.
Making Night Checking
Easier
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Put a dimmer on the
light switch
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Keep a soft night light
burning in the baby's
room
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Use a flashlight; keep
it near your bed.
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Apply petroleum jelly or
vegetable oil to the
side rails of the crib
to keep them from
squeaking when they're
raised or lowered. Or
rub them with waxed
paper.
Keeping Your Baby Cozy
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Test for comfort by
gently touch the back of
the baby's neck. (Be
sure your hand is not
cold; warm it next to
your body or under hot
water first if
necessary. ) If the
baby's neck is warm, he
or she is comfortable.
If it's damp, the baby
may be too warm. Arms
and legs can also give a
hint as to the baby's
comfort, and you can
check for a pink or rosy
color. Don't go by
feeling of the baby's
hands - they usually
feel cold.
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Us blanket sleepers of
various weights,
depending on the season,
and skip a blanket
altogether. If you're
really worried about the
baby being cold, put on
two sets of sleepers,
but be sure they don't
bind and cut off
circulation.
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Use rubberized flannel
"lap pad" over crib
sheets, or spread a
diaper across the sheet,
to avoid having to
disturb the baby by
changing sheets after
every leak and spit up.
Information provided by
"Vicki Lansky's Practical
Parenting Tips" Copyright
©1980, 1982 Vicki Lansky
Information Updated to
eliminate the suggestion of
putting the baby to sleep on
it's stomach 6/2007 |